Starting school in September can be an overwhelming experience for both children and their parents
The transition from the familiarity of home to the structured environment of school often brings a mix of excitement and anxiety. However, with the right preparation and mindset, this period doesn’t have to be fraught with worry.
“Now that your child has started ‘big school’, it’s the perfect time to focus on making this transition as smooth and positive as possible,” says Training Director at Education CPD. “The shift from preschool or home life to primary school can be both thrilling and daunting for young children. To help them approach this new chapter with enthusiasm and ease, there are several steps you can take.”
“Many parents often worry that their children need to master their ABCs, basic numbers, and essential vocabulary before starting school. While foundational academic skills are important, reception teachers prioritise other qualities that are equally crucial for a successful start. It’s crucial, for instance, for children to have mastered the ability to use the toilet independently. While the thought of asking for help might make them feel a bit shy, reassure them it’s perfectly okay to ask for help when needed.”
Empowering Kids with Every Button and Zip!
Adjusting to a new environment can make little ones anxious, and it’s not uncommon for occasional accidents to occur during the first few weeks. However, being toilet trained and able to manage bathroom needs on their own is essential for a smoother school experience.
“If you encounter any challenges with toilet training or have concerns about your child’s readiness, don’t hesitate to reach out to the school or seek support from relevant organisations. Ensuring your child feels confident and capable in this area will help them focus on all the exciting new adventures that school has to offer,” Charlotte says.
Being able to dress themselves is another crucial step that helps children feel more ‘grown-up’ as they head off to school. Imagine a bustling gym with over 20 energetic children getting ready for PE—it can quickly become chaotic when teachers are trying to assist each child with shirts, shorts, and shoes. To make things easier, consider using shoes with Velcro fasteners, which are simpler for young hands to manage.
“To prepare your child for this scenario, practice getting dressed and undressed together,” Charlotte says. “Start with small, manageable steps and offer support when needed. Gradually, and with patience, help them develop the skills to dress themselves independently. Incorporate these practice sessions into their nightly bedtime routine and morning preparations.”
If you find that your child still struggles despite regular practice, again, reach out to the school for additional support or resources. Consistent practice and a bit of encouragement will help your child build confidence and ease into this important skill.
Start School with a Smile
“Building strong communication and social skills is essential for children as they start school,” Charlotte continues. “They need to make friends, interact with peers, and express their interests to their teachers. To help your child develop these important skills, it’s crucial to foster regular conversations and provide ample opportunities for social interaction.
“Engage in meaningful dialogue with your child by discussing various topics, including their daily experiences and personal interests. Reading books together is a wonderful way to enhance their communication abilities. After finishing a story, ask questions about the plot, characters, and events, encouraging your child to express their thoughts and opinions. This not only helps with understanding the content but also expands their vocabulary and language skills.
“Make it a habit to discuss their day, introduce new words into your conversations, and use these moments to enrich their language development. Organise playdates with other children to provide your child with practical opportunities for social interaction. These playdates help them practice sharing, taking turns, and cooperating with their peers.”
The tips above offer a glimpse into how you can help your child ease into their reception year. Focus on nurturing their independence rather than stressing over academic skills—teachers are well-equipped to handle the educational side of things. If you have any concerns about your child starting school, reach out to the school. They are seasoned experts at welcoming new students each year and understand the common worries that parents may have.
Remember, your support and encouragement will go a long way in helping your child embark on this exciting new chapter with confidence.